Showing posts with label Midwives. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Midwives. Show all posts

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Happy 1st Birthday Levi!

One year ago today Levi was born. I had a wonderful homebirth and here is Levi's birth story:

It was a Saturday and I woke up and went to an appointment with my midwife. I was going on almost 2 weeks past my due date so Valarie my midwife wanted to see how things were going. When she checked she told me I was 4cm dilated and she could feel the baby's head!! I wasn't having any contractions and felt really good. So, we left the birth center and dropped Lulu off at my parents house because Mark and I were going to go test drive a car that we were looking to buy. Our appointment for the test drive was at 11am. I sat in our van while Mark took the car for a test drive. I made some calls to let some friends and family know that I was still pregnant. I remember while I was sitting waiting in the car I felt a contraction but didn't think much. Then on our way home I had another. We decided to go out and get some lunch. At this time it was noon and I was hungry. While we were eating I had a few more contractions and it was around 1pm at this time. I even told our waitress that I might be in labor and she thought that was exciting. After lunch we went home and I wanted to rest while Mark went and picked Lulu up, this was around 2pm. When they got home it was around 3pm and I was still having contractions but they weren't painful yet and I didn't feel the need to time them yet. I really don't like timing my contractions but finally I noticed they just weren't going away so I thought I would start making a note of how often they were coming because I knew my mom and my midwife were both going to be asking me how far apart they were......so being the good daughter I am I thought I would do this. So at this point they were about 2.5 min apart. I was still feeling really good and in no way feeling like a baby was coming. I called my mom and told her that I think I'm in labor, you might want to head over but I feel pretty good still. Then I called my midwife and she told me she was about 40min away but on her way, this was at 5pm. Then I thought I should let Mark know that I was in labor, even though he was standing right there in the kitchen with me. It didn't really hit him and he thought it was a bit odd that everyone was on their way because I was still able to hold a normal conversation with him. You see, Mark and I both have this odd thing about being in denial about labor. I'm very calm during labor and for me it's not very painful until the baby is actually coming out so my signs are hard to read. My mom arrived at 5:11pm and took over timing my contractions. She is my doula and I don't know what Mark and I would do without her being there. She is the one who thinks rationally in these situations and tells me, "Kimmy, yes you are in labor and this baby is coming soon." Now I love Mark and I think we do really well together during labor and make a good team. Some couples need to actually be next to each other and talking through contractions, but that's not us. While I was laboring Mark was doing dishes and dusting the birth pool.....yes, he was dusting. This works for us, it's not for everyone but for us this is what works. He keeps busy doing his thing and I keep busy doing my thing and then the baby arrives and we get to relax and be a family together. So once Mark was about done with the dishes, Valarie my midwife showed up and it was about 5:40pm. Her assistant showed up at 5:56pm. At 6:30pm my brother Todd and his wife Stephanie showed up and started taking pictures and the video. I want to say a special thank you to them for these amazing pictures that I have posted here. What a gift it has been to have both Lulu's birth and Levi's birth documented by them. Finally at 6:45pm the pain set in and I said "why am I doing this at home?" I remember just wanting it to be over and done. At 6:58pm my water broke and I looked up at Valarie my midwife and told her that I need to push. So we headed into our bedroom and everyone started getting ready for the baby to arrive. I remember not moments later I reached down and felt Levi's head and a few more pushes and he was out!! Lulu was right there while Valarie caught him. Then she handed Levi up to me. I was going to let Mark see if it was a girl or boy but I couldn't help but notice that it was a boy so I yelled out "It's a boy!!" before he even had a second to look. Valarie told me that while Lulu was watching she said "I see the baby!" Levi was born at 7:08pm weighing 9lbs 9oz and 21 1/2 inches long. He was BIG, but I already knew that. By 11pm everyone was gone and we all went to bed. Levi nursed right away after the birth and that night he slept so well and that meant we all slept really well too. It was picture perfect and I give all the glory to God for Levi's birth. Here is Lulu and I standing at the front door to our house about 30min before Levi joined our family. Here is my mom helping me through a contraction. She would give me water and put a cool rag on my neck, just what mom's do best. They take care of their babies even when they are 26 years old.
Here's Lulu hugging me while I was laboring.
Lulu was such a comfort to me during my labor. She did great and showed me so much love and comfort. She would tell me she loved me and how excited she was to meet the baby. It was such a great way for me to focus on her and not the pain I was feeling. I'm so thankful we had her there with us. I will always remember that special time I had with her.
Here's my mom comforting me during a contraction. She played two roles, my mom and my doula. What a blessing she has been for Mark and I during my pregnancies and labors.
Here is Valarie my midwife helping me through a contraction while Lulu was comforting me. Lulu was so hands on and helpful. We had a movie going for her but she wanted nothing to do with the movie. She wanted to be right with me helping and watching everything. I think she might be a midwife someday and a very good one too.
Here is our first family picture moments after Levi was born.
Here is little Levi Mark.
So content from the very first moments. And such a little cutie pie.Here is Mark holding Levi for the very first time.
What a proud daddy and sister.
And here is Levi being weighed. Look at Mark's face in the background......he's thinking are you kidding me? That's one big baby!

I would have to say that this past year has been amazing and Levi is such a blessing. Levi has brought so much joy to our family. Just like our Heavenly Father said in His Word, children are a blessing and we feel so incredibly blessed to have two amazing little children.

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Lobby Day at the Capitol

Today my mom, Lulu, Levi and I went down to Olympia, our states capitol to meet with our legislators and to talk with them about the importance of midwifery care. We met other mothers and midwives at a church across the street from the capitol building so we could get into groups and go over the scheduled meetings that were going to take place. We talked about the issues that the midwives were pushing. It was a lot of fun and very educational. I learned a lot today and now when I hear people say "contact your legislator" I know that it's actually quiet easy and could hopefully make a difference. Here is Lulu waiting so patiently while we met with everyone at 8:30am before going over to the capitol. The first meeting that we were scheduled to go to was at 9:15am with Senator Dale Brandland. He's not our actual representative but he was the first senator we met and was nice enough to pose for a quick picture......so quick that we only got the back of Lulu's head.Here is my mom with Lulu and Levi standing out in front of the capitol building. It was just beautiful and we couldn't have asked for a better day!Lulu standing on the front steps to the capitol building. She looks so tiny!! I was in aww by the size of everything and how much history are in these buildings.Grandma and Lulu having fun.And I had to get a picture of Levi. Here he is and behind him is the supreme court building of Washington. We finally made it inside the capitol building but right as we were getting inside we almost got kicked out.......LOL. Well, what happened was we were told by the lady at the front desk to go down a hall to the elevator (since I had the stroller we couldn't take the stairs) and go to the second floor for the tour we were going to take. So we went down the hall and got on one of the many elevators. When we reached our floor the doors opened up and there was a man standing on the other side waiting to get on. When he saw us he immediately had a look of confusion and said "how did you get in here?" Then two very large guards came up to us and escorted us out. What happened was that we got on a private elevator that needed a card to access it (but not for us) and we ended up in the senate chambers. The one guard that ended up escorting us out into the main rotunda was really nice and told us a bit about where we were. He must have been a dad because he was so friendly and understanding. We had a good laugh and can now say we have been in the senate chambers where only the senators are allowed to be. Here we are on the steps inside of the capitol building after we got kicked out......don't we look guilty and suspicious? The building was just breathtaking. Not really my style....all marble and concrete, but still very impressive. We were there just until lunch. The rest of the midwives were going to be staying until 5pm having meetings with legislators the rest of the afternoon but we had a 2 hour drive home so we got a head start. As we were leaving and walking the campus back to the car we passed all these motorcycles, most of them Harley's. They were there to discuss some issues with motorcycles in our state. It was a great turn out for them, there were hundreds of "biker dudes." They were in all the traditional leather gear and revving their engines. Lulu loved this and kept asking to go out in the street to see them. We had so much fun and learned a lot. I had a great time with my mom who has been my doula for both of my children's birth. You can see my mom's blog HERE and get her perspective on our day. Supporting the midwives in our state was really important to me since I have had such amazing support from them personally with my births. I love having the option to use a midwife and to homebirth with a midwife and that's why we went to Lobby day today, to show our support and to let our representatives know why midwifery is important to us.